So I was in Roanoke this weekend. Without a set base of operations, these trips have taken on certain stream-of-consciousness aspects of late, particularly when dealing with my sleeping arrangements. Essentially, I tend to crash wherever I end up last. Good thing I'm not bar-hopping and falling asleep in the gutter on Church Avenue, huh?
Anyway, Saturday night I found myself at a poker game in Boones Mill, about 20 minutes south of Roanoke. Will was gracious enough to let me stay with Suzanne and him the night before, and was at the game, and said I could stay with them again. However, he called it a night around 11:30 and I was still going strong. Stuart said I could crash on the couch there at the game as well. However, when I effectively ended the game a little bit after 2:00 by busting Anthony (and there are those of you that know how much fun I had doing that) I was wide friggin' awake. No chance I was sleeping anytime soon.
So, what rational decision did I make? Around 2:30, I was starting out for my drive home. To Richmond. It made sense when I made the decision, but when I was screaming along with the CD that was playing and shaking about in my seat somewhere past Charlottesville in an effort to not fall asleep, I had to wonder. Not that I exactly needed the reminder, but one of the things about driving when no one else is on the road is that there's a reason why that is.
I'm a little tired today, and I can barely imagine why. *chuckle*
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
When the Night Comes...
you might find me singing karaoke.
As I was walking back from the local bar (did I mention that I can walk to the local bar? And I haven't yet been so nasty drunk where this would be truly beneficial) tonight, I was trying to figure out what was it about this activity that appeals to me, and to others, so much.
First of all, the bars I have frequented enough to notice certainly draw more people when music is playing, even if it is being warbled off key (what's a "key" again?). Second, I think it helps draws regulars to a particular place. You know you can go, have a little fun, not be abused too much when you think you can crank out your best Michael Jackson (no, I haven't tried, but I've been tempted). Third, I think it feeds some tiny, or maybe not-so-tiny little performance craving. People, to varying degrees, like to be noticed. Some people go up there and play the fool, but enjoy the howls and catcalls. Some people channel their inner rock star and let it loose. Some people (particularly people either new to the experience or the bar) sway a little, and give you hints about what they might do given half a chance. Some people just want to make sure they get the song more-or-less "right" (words, melody, pace, whatever part you want to focus on) to make themselves happy. Some people have been imbibing a teensy bit more than they should and/or are dragged up by so-called friends to sing some piece-of-crap song you don't even want to hear on the radio.
Where do I fit into the above list? All of the above, at one time or another. My somewhat outgoing nature for all of you unfortunate enough to know me well and have experienced it at times aside, I am an introvert. I do not make an effort to randomly talk to people I don't know, and without some structured event, my time spent in bars without a sizeable support group would be minimal. I love music (file this under "no duh, Chris") and love to sing. Did this a few times in college, and for the most part wasn't very good. Fast forward ten or so years, and it's me sitting uncomfortably with my nose in the song book for 45 minutes, singing one song, and leaving the bar in a rush. Eventually, I met a couple of people in the bar who knew, well, every other damn person in the bar, and the walls came tumbling down. I stayed long enough to sing two songs, and sing with other people, and sing a song just for the hell of it without caring (too much) about the end result. At one point some months later, I look around and the bar is kicking us out at closing time, and I know I'll be dead at work the next day, but it's a very satisfied kind of tired.
When I sing songs, it's not unlike how I listen to music. I'll cycle back to time-tested stuff, but I'll try damn near anything under the right circumstances. In the 5 years I've been out there I've probably sung over 200 different songs, many of them only once. Some of them very badly. A lot of them okay, but nothing to write home about. A decent number where I could finish, sit down, and go, "I'd be willing to sing that again; that wasn't awful, but I could do better". And then there's that moment... I do something right, and the thing comes out sounding like I want it to, and there is more than polite applause somewhere in the bar, or a pat on the back, or a sincere compliment. That's the drug, uncut, right there. Those are the handful of songs I keep coming back to, and the ones that I try and make others sound like. I don't just restrict myself to them, but they're like a good friend that you know you can count on. The songs I can sing to my satisfaction, I tend to like more and listen to more. Then with the ones I screw up, it's almost like I punish them (as though it's their fault I couldn't get my voice to cooperate).
So, as you know, I moved back to Richmond a few months ago. It wasn't surprising that I sought out a location where I could try and at least put a crack in the new walls I had to deal with. And I've tried several places, on several different nights of the week, always leading off with something right at the top of my comfort zone. I currently do my thing (such as it is) at The Beach House around the corner from work and home. When I first went, a new friend from work went with me, but he soon tired of the routine, and I had to go solo. It took a few hard weeks where I could recognize the regulars and smile and nod and make small talk, but the time between songs was fighting a small urge pushing me in the back to get up and walk out, and a voice saying "you don't belong here, this is not your place, why don't you just go home and listen to music on your computer, or call one of your friends on the phone?" Never mind that some of these friends were likely out somewhere, especially the ones I made through hours of spent time at Green Dolphin Grille or Martin's back in the Noke. Eventually, however, a couple of people invited me to sit with them, and the waitress flirts with me, and the DJ calls me one of the regulars, and it's starting to feel like a good place to be.
So what does my twisted little mind believe I can actually sing with something resembling effectiveness? *ahem* in list form:
7) If I Had $1,000,000 - Barenaked Ladies: It requires a partner, and I had a good one at Martin's. Had fun substituting "Tim's a bitch" for the last line "I'd be rich" and all the regular poker players who stayed around to sing/hang out would laugh at old Two-Hand. Not likely to do this one again unless I find a new partner, and don't even know if I should, because it won't be easy to replicate the feeling in the new town without the old friends. But, moving on...
6) Jump Around - House Of Pain: Yeah, you wouldn't think it, would ya? But one night I got the itch, and when I gave it to the DJ, he said "really?" Nothing like a confidence booster. But there was much dancing, and jumping around, and rowdy raucousness, and raucous rowdyness. And the DJ said "yeah, I was wrong". And we know how I like to prove people wrong...
5) Right Place, Wrong Time - Dr. John: Did this one night at a Mardi-Gras themed party at the Grille, and it sounded pretty good. Did it around Mardi Gras the next year. Then I figured something out and it's one of the ones I can pull out wherever I go, and don't even need the jester's hat, though green and purple and gold look good on me. Or maybe the hat does for reasons we need not elaborate on.
4) London Calling - The Clash: Honestly, this could easily have been Should I Stay or Should I Go. Rock The Casbah and Train In Vain are also good, but this one was the breakthrough Clash song for me, the first one where I got that feeling, and that pat on the back, literally.
3) Tangled Up In Blue - Bob Dylan: It being my all-time favorite song helps here, but Dylan is hard to really screw up because his singing style isn't exactly traditional. All you non-Dylan fans feel free to shut up right about here. But it's not the easiest thing to feel comfortable singing, either. I knew I had something right one night when Celtic John said he had someone open the door so he could hear the song while he was outside. I hope he was sincere, because that was the best compliment just about ever....
2) Paradise By The Dashboard Lights - Meatloaf: Not only do I have the nostalgia of remembering APO parties when I sing this, but I also have a truly unique thing with this song. I had sung it a couple of times with various people but this girl I had seen once or twice asks a friend of mine at the Grille if anyone can sing this song. He points me out immediately, and we sing it, and it was pretty good (mostly because she can really sing), and a bit of fun. She hangs out with us at the bar for a few weeks and then about disappears. Year goes by, and the Grille is gone, and the karaoke DJ tells me she's coming down to Martin's that night. We talk a bit, and one of us mentions a duet. We do the song, and she's letting loose. I knew she could sing, but holy crap I didn't remember her as dynamic as this. I'm just trying not to screw up. But it goes over like gangbusters. So we bond, if you will, over this song, and over the next few months do the song a few more times, and in a couple of other places. We get more playful, and the "routine" if you will really starts to pick up speed. I get to the point when I'm not hindering things, and then it seems like I'm helping things along. Very well aware that I'm still nowhere near her league as a singer, and never will be. But for those 8 minutes, I don't have to be, because I'm actually a performer as much as I'm singing, and it has helped me as much to feel like I should be singing whenever I feel like it, because I know what I can do under optimal circumstances. Ah, no hubris here, really... but I know if nothing else when I visit Roanoke I can call this young lady and at least if she's free meet her at one of a couple of places, and totally rip through this song.
1) Fell In Love With A Girl - White Stripes: One minutes and fifty seconds of perfect sonic mayhem. It doesn't rate with other things I felt were more sincere, but a perfect stranger asked me if I was in a real band once after I finished this song. Friends have told other people who have never been out with us that this is my song. One even said that he thinks it sounds a little weird hearing the White Stripes version, but I think that's just because he's been subjected to me many times, and doesn't hear it that often on the radio. Several people have at various times asked me to do this song. It's a great fucking song, too. Just saying... I said it once before, but it bears repeating, now.
As I was walking back from the local bar (did I mention that I can walk to the local bar? And I haven't yet been so nasty drunk where this would be truly beneficial) tonight, I was trying to figure out what was it about this activity that appeals to me, and to others, so much.
First of all, the bars I have frequented enough to notice certainly draw more people when music is playing, even if it is being warbled off key (what's a "key" again?). Second, I think it helps draws regulars to a particular place. You know you can go, have a little fun, not be abused too much when you think you can crank out your best Michael Jackson (no, I haven't tried, but I've been tempted). Third, I think it feeds some tiny, or maybe not-so-tiny little performance craving. People, to varying degrees, like to be noticed. Some people go up there and play the fool, but enjoy the howls and catcalls. Some people channel their inner rock star and let it loose. Some people (particularly people either new to the experience or the bar) sway a little, and give you hints about what they might do given half a chance. Some people just want to make sure they get the song more-or-less "right" (words, melody, pace, whatever part you want to focus on) to make themselves happy. Some people have been imbibing a teensy bit more than they should and/or are dragged up by so-called friends to sing some piece-of-crap song you don't even want to hear on the radio.
Where do I fit into the above list? All of the above, at one time or another. My somewhat outgoing nature for all of you unfortunate enough to know me well and have experienced it at times aside, I am an introvert. I do not make an effort to randomly talk to people I don't know, and without some structured event, my time spent in bars without a sizeable support group would be minimal. I love music (file this under "no duh, Chris") and love to sing. Did this a few times in college, and for the most part wasn't very good. Fast forward ten or so years, and it's me sitting uncomfortably with my nose in the song book for 45 minutes, singing one song, and leaving the bar in a rush. Eventually, I met a couple of people in the bar who knew, well, every other damn person in the bar, and the walls came tumbling down. I stayed long enough to sing two songs, and sing with other people, and sing a song just for the hell of it without caring (too much) about the end result. At one point some months later, I look around and the bar is kicking us out at closing time, and I know I'll be dead at work the next day, but it's a very satisfied kind of tired.
When I sing songs, it's not unlike how I listen to music. I'll cycle back to time-tested stuff, but I'll try damn near anything under the right circumstances. In the 5 years I've been out there I've probably sung over 200 different songs, many of them only once. Some of them very badly. A lot of them okay, but nothing to write home about. A decent number where I could finish, sit down, and go, "I'd be willing to sing that again; that wasn't awful, but I could do better". And then there's that moment... I do something right, and the thing comes out sounding like I want it to, and there is more than polite applause somewhere in the bar, or a pat on the back, or a sincere compliment. That's the drug, uncut, right there. Those are the handful of songs I keep coming back to, and the ones that I try and make others sound like. I don't just restrict myself to them, but they're like a good friend that you know you can count on. The songs I can sing to my satisfaction, I tend to like more and listen to more. Then with the ones I screw up, it's almost like I punish them (as though it's their fault I couldn't get my voice to cooperate).
So, as you know, I moved back to Richmond a few months ago. It wasn't surprising that I sought out a location where I could try and at least put a crack in the new walls I had to deal with. And I've tried several places, on several different nights of the week, always leading off with something right at the top of my comfort zone. I currently do my thing (such as it is) at The Beach House around the corner from work and home. When I first went, a new friend from work went with me, but he soon tired of the routine, and I had to go solo. It took a few hard weeks where I could recognize the regulars and smile and nod and make small talk, but the time between songs was fighting a small urge pushing me in the back to get up and walk out, and a voice saying "you don't belong here, this is not your place, why don't you just go home and listen to music on your computer, or call one of your friends on the phone?" Never mind that some of these friends were likely out somewhere, especially the ones I made through hours of spent time at Green Dolphin Grille or Martin's back in the Noke. Eventually, however, a couple of people invited me to sit with them, and the waitress flirts with me, and the DJ calls me one of the regulars, and it's starting to feel like a good place to be.
So what does my twisted little mind believe I can actually sing with something resembling effectiveness? *ahem* in list form:
7) If I Had $1,000,000 - Barenaked Ladies: It requires a partner, and I had a good one at Martin's. Had fun substituting "Tim's a bitch" for the last line "I'd be rich" and all the regular poker players who stayed around to sing/hang out would laugh at old Two-Hand. Not likely to do this one again unless I find a new partner, and don't even know if I should, because it won't be easy to replicate the feeling in the new town without the old friends. But, moving on...
6) Jump Around - House Of Pain: Yeah, you wouldn't think it, would ya? But one night I got the itch, and when I gave it to the DJ, he said "really?" Nothing like a confidence booster. But there was much dancing, and jumping around, and rowdy raucousness, and raucous rowdyness. And the DJ said "yeah, I was wrong". And we know how I like to prove people wrong...
5) Right Place, Wrong Time - Dr. John: Did this one night at a Mardi-Gras themed party at the Grille, and it sounded pretty good. Did it around Mardi Gras the next year. Then I figured something out and it's one of the ones I can pull out wherever I go, and don't even need the jester's hat, though green and purple and gold look good on me. Or maybe the hat does for reasons we need not elaborate on.
4) London Calling - The Clash: Honestly, this could easily have been Should I Stay or Should I Go. Rock The Casbah and Train In Vain are also good, but this one was the breakthrough Clash song for me, the first one where I got that feeling, and that pat on the back, literally.
3) Tangled Up In Blue - Bob Dylan: It being my all-time favorite song helps here, but Dylan is hard to really screw up because his singing style isn't exactly traditional. All you non-Dylan fans feel free to shut up right about here. But it's not the easiest thing to feel comfortable singing, either. I knew I had something right one night when Celtic John said he had someone open the door so he could hear the song while he was outside. I hope he was sincere, because that was the best compliment just about ever....
2) Paradise By The Dashboard Lights - Meatloaf: Not only do I have the nostalgia of remembering APO parties when I sing this, but I also have a truly unique thing with this song. I had sung it a couple of times with various people but this girl I had seen once or twice asks a friend of mine at the Grille if anyone can sing this song. He points me out immediately, and we sing it, and it was pretty good (mostly because she can really sing), and a bit of fun. She hangs out with us at the bar for a few weeks and then about disappears. Year goes by, and the Grille is gone, and the karaoke DJ tells me she's coming down to Martin's that night. We talk a bit, and one of us mentions a duet. We do the song, and she's letting loose. I knew she could sing, but holy crap I didn't remember her as dynamic as this. I'm just trying not to screw up. But it goes over like gangbusters. So we bond, if you will, over this song, and over the next few months do the song a few more times, and in a couple of other places. We get more playful, and the "routine" if you will really starts to pick up speed. I get to the point when I'm not hindering things, and then it seems like I'm helping things along. Very well aware that I'm still nowhere near her league as a singer, and never will be. But for those 8 minutes, I don't have to be, because I'm actually a performer as much as I'm singing, and it has helped me as much to feel like I should be singing whenever I feel like it, because I know what I can do under optimal circumstances. Ah, no hubris here, really... but I know if nothing else when I visit Roanoke I can call this young lady and at least if she's free meet her at one of a couple of places, and totally rip through this song.
1) Fell In Love With A Girl - White Stripes: One minutes and fifty seconds of perfect sonic mayhem. It doesn't rate with other things I felt were more sincere, but a perfect stranger asked me if I was in a real band once after I finished this song. Friends have told other people who have never been out with us that this is my song. One even said that he thinks it sounds a little weird hearing the White Stripes version, but I think that's just because he's been subjected to me many times, and doesn't hear it that often on the radio. Several people have at various times asked me to do this song. It's a great fucking song, too. Just saying... I said it once before, but it bears repeating, now.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Children and All That Jazz
So I'm going to Chicago in a few days. The main attraction will be the opportunity to see my little niece for the first time. For those of you who haven't heard, Abigail Sofia was due somewhere in March. My sister told me her original due date was the 7th, then bumped back to the 21st, then they were going to induce on the 18th. So several weeks out, I predicted the birth of my niece on St. Patrick's Day, and that the happy parents should acknowledge that by throwing some Irish name in there. I like the name Abigail, but either a replacement middle name or two middle names wouldn't be the worst idea, I thought.
To show how much we listen to Uncle Chris, the baby was born on March 17, as predicted, and the planned name didn't change at all. Was Siobahn, Nuala, Moira or Brianne such a bad idea? *sighs* Whatever, then. Of course, I've been told something on the line of "when you have your own child, you can stick whatever name you feel like on him/her/them."
When I have my own child... you know, even from those people who I know were under familial pressure to reproduce, I tend not to take this commentary very well. I will give my family credit and say that it was never a point of contention. Therefore, in the early years of my marriage, it was easy to respond to the inevitable question of "when are you going to have kids?" with "well, I'm practicing as diligently as I can!" Needless to say, said marriage didn't exactly proceed according to plan, so most of me thinks it's a good thing there were no children. Spoken like a true product of a divorced childhood.
Nevertheless, somehow there's a pattern that the stereotypical life is supposed to favor. Go to school, get a job, get married, have 2.5 children, have a house with a white picket fence and a dog (please not a cat!), grow old together, watch your children repeat this process, spoil your grandchildren, die peacefully in a contented old age. Somehow, failing to complete this journey brings forth some doubts as to whether "a full life" has been led.
Now, as of this writing, I am as far as I know without progeny. Again, I'm usually pretty damn sure that this is a good idea. I'm nothing if not practical, cynical (why do I sound like I'm heading towards singing Supertramp?) and rational. Overpopulation, lack of faith in this world being a better place than the one I came into, the thought that I'm a little overly concerned with myself to believe that I'd be a good father, lack of interest in ever seriously saying the words "baby mama" and I could think of a few others. "But you'll have no one to watch over you when you get old" has actually been given to me as a reason to procreate, and I think "do I want to have kids just to make them do that?" If that's the best reason to come up with, I'll pass, thanks.
It's not inconceivable (all puns are intended) that this could happen in the future. People are living longer, and I'm rather young for my age (immature could probably be used just as easily), and in decent shape. Starting a family at 40 is hardly unusual. Hey, 40 is the new 30! But you know, the fact is that some people in every generation just don't have children, for any one of a variety of reasons. In my group of friends, it seems to be an almost 50-50 split. The ones who are currently unmarried make up the majority of the childless, but there are couples that seem to be perfectly content not bringing rugrats into this plane of existence.
As with the kind of questions I ask my classes when I try and foster debate, there is no truly correct answer (though most of you reading will at least be able to understand what I mean if I threw out the term "anthropomorphic" but that's a rant for the future, perhaps). My existential musing is winding down, and circling back to the start of the post, I expect to have pictures of Abigail Sofia to share at some point. But when I'm conned into changing my first diaper, I don't promise that the thought "at least I don't have to do this regularly" won't run through my head like a bullet train. Auf Wiedersehen!
To show how much we listen to Uncle Chris, the baby was born on March 17, as predicted, and the planned name didn't change at all. Was Siobahn, Nuala, Moira or Brianne such a bad idea? *sighs* Whatever, then. Of course, I've been told something on the line of "when you have your own child, you can stick whatever name you feel like on him/her/them."
When I have my own child... you know, even from those people who I know were under familial pressure to reproduce, I tend not to take this commentary very well. I will give my family credit and say that it was never a point of contention. Therefore, in the early years of my marriage, it was easy to respond to the inevitable question of "when are you going to have kids?" with "well, I'm practicing as diligently as I can!" Needless to say, said marriage didn't exactly proceed according to plan, so most of me thinks it's a good thing there were no children. Spoken like a true product of a divorced childhood.
Nevertheless, somehow there's a pattern that the stereotypical life is supposed to favor. Go to school, get a job, get married, have 2.5 children, have a house with a white picket fence and a dog (please not a cat!), grow old together, watch your children repeat this process, spoil your grandchildren, die peacefully in a contented old age. Somehow, failing to complete this journey brings forth some doubts as to whether "a full life" has been led.
Now, as of this writing, I am as far as I know without progeny. Again, I'm usually pretty damn sure that this is a good idea. I'm nothing if not practical, cynical (why do I sound like I'm heading towards singing Supertramp?) and rational. Overpopulation, lack of faith in this world being a better place than the one I came into, the thought that I'm a little overly concerned with myself to believe that I'd be a good father, lack of interest in ever seriously saying the words "baby mama" and I could think of a few others. "But you'll have no one to watch over you when you get old" has actually been given to me as a reason to procreate, and I think "do I want to have kids just to make them do that?" If that's the best reason to come up with, I'll pass, thanks.
It's not inconceivable (all puns are intended) that this could happen in the future. People are living longer, and I'm rather young for my age (immature could probably be used just as easily), and in decent shape. Starting a family at 40 is hardly unusual. Hey, 40 is the new 30! But you know, the fact is that some people in every generation just don't have children, for any one of a variety of reasons. In my group of friends, it seems to be an almost 50-50 split. The ones who are currently unmarried make up the majority of the childless, but there are couples that seem to be perfectly content not bringing rugrats into this plane of existence.
As with the kind of questions I ask my classes when I try and foster debate, there is no truly correct answer (though most of you reading will at least be able to understand what I mean if I threw out the term "anthropomorphic" but that's a rant for the future, perhaps). My existential musing is winding down, and circling back to the start of the post, I expect to have pictures of Abigail Sofia to share at some point. But when I'm conned into changing my first diaper, I don't promise that the thought "at least I don't have to do this regularly" won't run through my head like a bullet train. Auf Wiedersehen!
Friday, June 12, 2009
"I guess sometimes you need the place where you belong"
So I've been playing a lot on this trivia site (http://www.funtrivia.com/?ref=triviapoet for those of you who missed that posted link on Facebook) and the music categories often talk about how this album or this song in that year, and how 5, 10, 20, 50 or however many round years ago something happened. And some of my favorites never make it on to that list. So I started thinking that it was 10 years ago about this time of year that I fell in love with the album Central Reservation by Beth Orton.
With BMG and no end of used CD stores, and a lack of music stores memberships to give me discounts (which I am in no short supply of these days), I didn't often walk into a store and walk out with a $15 dollar CD. I did the day I heard snippets of this album. I knew her work from her previous album Trailer Park (thanks little sis!) but while some people who shall remain nameless always favored that album, I was completely hooked on this neat little nugget from the jump.
The lead single, Stolen Car, gives this particular post it's title, and will show up again on its own when and if I do some of the list/opinion posts promised in my previous post of all of about 20 minutes ago. But it goes beyond that. Stars All Seem To Weep is a very good song that totally captures a unique reflective electronic pose that I don't hear many other places, Sweetest Decline is a soft melody backed by what I think is her strongest vocal performance on the album, and the title track in both its original and remixed forms nicely finish off the two sides of the record (assuming of course it was an album and not the CD). It's one of those albums you can put on, and despite having clear strong favorites, listen to the whole thing without impatience.
For several years, I was prone to say this was the best album I had heard in the last however many years it had been up to that point. I have heard somewhere between a couple and a few albums in the last 10 years I might definitely say are better than this one, but that's about it. Where I've made mixes for who knows how many people with Stolen Car or Stars All Seem To Weep on it, I don't often make copies of whole albums for people unless they are looking for something specific. If you read this, and you ask, I will happily comply. And I doubt you will regret asking.
With BMG and no end of used CD stores, and a lack of music stores memberships to give me discounts (which I am in no short supply of these days), I didn't often walk into a store and walk out with a $15 dollar CD. I did the day I heard snippets of this album. I knew her work from her previous album Trailer Park (thanks little sis!) but while some people who shall remain nameless always favored that album, I was completely hooked on this neat little nugget from the jump.
The lead single, Stolen Car, gives this particular post it's title, and will show up again on its own when and if I do some of the list/opinion posts promised in my previous post of all of about 20 minutes ago. But it goes beyond that. Stars All Seem To Weep is a very good song that totally captures a unique reflective electronic pose that I don't hear many other places, Sweetest Decline is a soft melody backed by what I think is her strongest vocal performance on the album, and the title track in both its original and remixed forms nicely finish off the two sides of the record (assuming of course it was an album and not the CD). It's one of those albums you can put on, and despite having clear strong favorites, listen to the whole thing without impatience.
For several years, I was prone to say this was the best album I had heard in the last however many years it had been up to that point. I have heard somewhere between a couple and a few albums in the last 10 years I might definitely say are better than this one, but that's about it. Where I've made mixes for who knows how many people with Stolen Car or Stars All Seem To Weep on it, I don't often make copies of whole albums for people unless they are looking for something specific. If you read this, and you ask, I will happily comply. And I doubt you will regret asking.
Oops, I didn't do it again... some more
Hmm, late February was a while ago, wasn't it? And we have just hit upon the crux on why I never have felt like I should be doing a blog. I never kept up with a diary for very long. I couldn't name you the last year when I wrote more than 1 poem. I seem to be the person to have an immediate, visceral reaction to something, and call or e-mail someone, and then it passes. It might be a good thing that nothing has made me indignant enough to put it down, or it might be a sad thing that nothing poignant enough has inspired me.
Let's see, to catch up...
Turned 35 -- Perhaps because it's not a full "round number" kind of thing, it didn't carry a ton of weight. Perhaps because it's just another year. Perhaps because with a small circle of relatively new friends here in Richmond, several of whom didn't know it was my birthday, I was able to keep it very low key. Perhaps it was because, by comparison with the last birthday of note (this would be the big 3-0) life around me wasn't leaving me beset by all of what I called the "M squad" - melancholy, morose, melodramatic, miasmatic, macabre, miserable and maladjusted, and I think you get the point now - and I could keep things in some kind of perspective.
Back into teaching - got two weekend seminars teaching with my boss/sometimes partner Elisabeth at U of R, one which took place in May and one which will occur in July, giving lectures on Virginia history and babysitting youngish adults on field trips around the city. You know, St. John's Church, The Capitol, Historical Society and such. The fact that the students are all au pairs has amused more than one person, including my boss, who said I needed to join her on this particular job to give the students someone other than an old lady to look at. *shakes head with grin on face*
Also will be leading an independent study for three students taking a liberal arts senior seminar class in the second six weeks of summer. So those combined should about equal what I gave up in Roanoke if we assume I'd have gotten a summer class to go with the spring class I forfeited to move. And I'm already lined up with a class for the fall, and maybe yet another weekend seminar. No word if it will be 20 or so students, 90-95% of whom will be women aged 19-26 from foreign places. Yes, I was probably looking at some of them as much as they might have been inclined to look at me.
Sin City - I entered the cheapest World Series of Poker event there has been since the explosion in the "sport" (and I use the term dubiously). It still wasn't cheap, and I didn't cash. But I lasted several hours, and not for one second did I think I did not belong. This, I needed to know. I didn't tell anyone, but if I had gone and felt hopelessly outclassed, I might have, well, not quit playing altogether, but stopped working seriously to make myself a good player. This also means when Jason inevitably gets heads up with me and has a worse hand and inevitably sucks out (those of you who haven't heard this don't even want to get me started on bad beat stories about this guy, I promise), I will still want to go into a Phil Hellmuth-style rant. That's kind of a pity, because I like Daniel Negreanu so much better.
Inspiration to write - El Chuxter has discussed reawakening the pop culture website idea I had several years ago (under the title mag-seven.com for those of you who might remember hearing about it), and I have actually considered posting once or twice on subjects, making lists again, and All That Jazz (that one was for Karaoke Girl). So, probably even less touchy-feely shit in the future, barring that kind of inspiration. But, debate worthy opinions will likely be posted more regularly. *cracks knuckles* Look for one very soon.
Peace out, peeps!
Let's see, to catch up...
Turned 35 -- Perhaps because it's not a full "round number" kind of thing, it didn't carry a ton of weight. Perhaps because it's just another year. Perhaps because with a small circle of relatively new friends here in Richmond, several of whom didn't know it was my birthday, I was able to keep it very low key. Perhaps it was because, by comparison with the last birthday of note (this would be the big 3-0) life around me wasn't leaving me beset by all of what I called the "M squad" - melancholy, morose, melodramatic, miasmatic, macabre, miserable and maladjusted, and I think you get the point now - and I could keep things in some kind of perspective.
Back into teaching - got two weekend seminars teaching with my boss/sometimes partner Elisabeth at U of R, one which took place in May and one which will occur in July, giving lectures on Virginia history and babysitting youngish adults on field trips around the city. You know, St. John's Church, The Capitol, Historical Society and such. The fact that the students are all au pairs has amused more than one person, including my boss, who said I needed to join her on this particular job to give the students someone other than an old lady to look at. *shakes head with grin on face*
Also will be leading an independent study for three students taking a liberal arts senior seminar class in the second six weeks of summer. So those combined should about equal what I gave up in Roanoke if we assume I'd have gotten a summer class to go with the spring class I forfeited to move. And I'm already lined up with a class for the fall, and maybe yet another weekend seminar. No word if it will be 20 or so students, 90-95% of whom will be women aged 19-26 from foreign places. Yes, I was probably looking at some of them as much as they might have been inclined to look at me.
Sin City - I entered the cheapest World Series of Poker event there has been since the explosion in the "sport" (and I use the term dubiously). It still wasn't cheap, and I didn't cash. But I lasted several hours, and not for one second did I think I did not belong. This, I needed to know. I didn't tell anyone, but if I had gone and felt hopelessly outclassed, I might have, well, not quit playing altogether, but stopped working seriously to make myself a good player. This also means when Jason inevitably gets heads up with me and has a worse hand and inevitably sucks out (those of you who haven't heard this don't even want to get me started on bad beat stories about this guy, I promise), I will still want to go into a Phil Hellmuth-style rant. That's kind of a pity, because I like Daniel Negreanu so much better.
Inspiration to write - El Chuxter has discussed reawakening the pop culture website idea I had several years ago (under the title mag-seven.com for those of you who might remember hearing about it), and I have actually considered posting once or twice on subjects, making lists again, and All That Jazz (that one was for Karaoke Girl). So, probably even less touchy-feely shit in the future, barring that kind of inspiration. But, debate worthy opinions will likely be posted more regularly. *cracks knuckles* Look for one very soon.
Peace out, peeps!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Oscars - you watching them? Yeah, me neither...
... but that doesn't mean I am uninterested in knowing who wins, or above some casual speculation about the contenders and pretenders. I will preface all this by saying that if I were still in Roanoke, I'd have seen more Oscar-nominated movies, and that in at least one category I'd be doing a little better than flying blind, that being....
1) Best Actor - Richard Jenkins, Frank Langella, Sean Penn, Brad Pitt, Mickey Rourke
Yeah, not seeing the movies for the two front-runners is gonna make this very hard. I don't think Pitt wins for this polarizing movie, and Richard Jenkins seems to be the guy for whom the nomination is essentially his win. This is a shame because I really liked the movie, and thought he was great. And besides, I liked him better than Pitt in Burn After Reading as well. But anyway, as mentioned in a previous blog, I was at times quite captivated by Langella's performance in Frost/Nixon, but I think the only way he adds an Oscar to his Tony is if the voters who for some reason can't go between Sean Penn and Mickey Rourke go his way. I'm gonna lean towards Sean Penn here, but if I somehow carve time out this weekend to see movies, I reserve the right to change my mind.
Preference: Richard Jenkins, The Visitor
Bet: Sean Penn, Milk
2) Best Actress - Anne Hathaway, Angelina Jolie, Melissa Leo, Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet
I was gonna make some sweet comment about Jolie and Brad Pitt both being nominated, and making comparisons to Paul Newman/Joanne Woodward or even Laurence Olivier/Vivien Leigh but then remembered they weren't hitched. Oops. Salad dressing trumps adopted non-American orphans, I guess. Moving on. Jolie, Hathaway and Leo are all supporting movies that didn't get much love in any other major category, and buzz-wise have fallen behind the umpteenth nomination of Streep (though she hasn't won in over 25 years) and Kate Winslet's 6th nomination meaning it's time for the Academy to give the career nod thing. Streep has fans who loved Mamma Mia as well, and Winslet got two Golden Globes for two roles, yet not nominated for Revolutionary Road. Catholic turmoil vs. ex-Nazi turmoil. Finally, just going with my preference.
Preference and Bet: Kate Winslet, The Reader
3) Best Supporting Actor - Josh Brolin, Robert Downey, Phillip Seymour Hoffman, Heath Ledger, Michael Shannon
Admit it, you had to look and say "you mean there are four other people nominated in this category?" Shame for Hoffman and Brolin, but the former has an Oscar, and the latter has been seriously building momentum the last couple of years for another run later. Michael Shannon's nomination was probably the biggest acting surprise, unless you count the fact that there's an acting nomination coming from Tropic Thunder (what kind of odds could you have gotten on that a year ago), Good on ya, Robert Downey, Jr. More comedies should get nominated, but that's another soapbox. For what it's worth, I saw the winning role, found it very powerful, and don't really wanna give away a gimme.
Preference and Bet: Heath Ledger, The Dark Knight
4) Best supporting actress - Amy Adams, Penelope Cruz, Viola Davis, Taraji P. Henson, Marisa Tomei
Okay, I expected Kate Winslet to get her Oscar here before the nominations were announced, so here goes nothing. Let's say that Adams and Davis will split votes for their movie (I would have picked Davis outright if this were not the case), Henson's work in this most-nominated movie has the best shot for an acting win, but I don't see it. I am totally in favor of hot older actresses playing strippers (Tomei is much more eager to take off her clothes in recent years. Seen Before The Devil Knows Your Dead? Everybody say "YES!"), but I don't think she's ever gotten the momentum for this to get there. So, I'll play the thing about Woody Allen's actresses doing well on Oscar night.
Preference: Viola Davis, Doubt
Bet: Penelope Cruz, Vicky Christina Barcelona
5) Best director - Danny Boyle, Steven Daldry, David Fincher, Ron Howard, Gus Van Sant
Hmm, I felt all the candidates for the movies I have seen did fine jobs. In previous blog posts I have spoke glowingly about Danny and Opie (just sounds like it should be its own movie or something), and wouldn't fault any of these five. Lemme pull one out here...
Preference: Ron Howard, Frost/Nixon
Bet: David Fincher, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
6) Best animated film - Bolt, Kung Fu Panda, Wall-E
Okay, I'm taking an almost certain copout freebie here, but I have two things I want to say. One, Wall-E is one of the movies I have seen, so I should be allowed to pick it if I liked it. Two, I liked it, a lot, and wouldn't have even complained if it had snuck on to the nominees for Best Picture. So there.
Preference and Bet: Wall-E
7) Best picture - The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Frost/Nixon, Milk, The Reader, Slumdog Millionaire
My whole discussion should be on whether anyone can slow the momentum of Slumdog Millionaire, which has been quite the critical darling. The Indian fairy tale doesn't have major acting awards to shoulder some of the heavy lifting, and with the exception of Danny Boyle's Director nod, doesn't have any other real place to show love for the film. So, while the serious political messages of Milk make it best placed for the upset, I will say not this year.
Preference and Bet: Slumdog Millionaire
and several other "less major awards" I wanna see how I'd do, with preference/bets going towards movies I saw, wanted to see, or wanna go out on a limb on.
1) Original Screenplay - Milk
2) Adapted Screenplay - John Patrick Shanley, Doubt
3) Foreign-Language Film - The Class
4) Costume Design - The Duchess
5) Cinematography - Slumdog Millionaire
6) Visual Effects - The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
7) Sound Editing/Sound Mixing: could I tell the difference? Probably not - The Dark Knight
So have fun, and let's see if I can match my Grammy post....
1) Best Actor - Richard Jenkins, Frank Langella, Sean Penn, Brad Pitt, Mickey Rourke
Yeah, not seeing the movies for the two front-runners is gonna make this very hard. I don't think Pitt wins for this polarizing movie, and Richard Jenkins seems to be the guy for whom the nomination is essentially his win. This is a shame because I really liked the movie, and thought he was great. And besides, I liked him better than Pitt in Burn After Reading as well. But anyway, as mentioned in a previous blog, I was at times quite captivated by Langella's performance in Frost/Nixon, but I think the only way he adds an Oscar to his Tony is if the voters who for some reason can't go between Sean Penn and Mickey Rourke go his way. I'm gonna lean towards Sean Penn here, but if I somehow carve time out this weekend to see movies, I reserve the right to change my mind.
Preference: Richard Jenkins, The Visitor
Bet: Sean Penn, Milk
2) Best Actress - Anne Hathaway, Angelina Jolie, Melissa Leo, Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet
I was gonna make some sweet comment about Jolie and Brad Pitt both being nominated, and making comparisons to Paul Newman/Joanne Woodward or even Laurence Olivier/Vivien Leigh but then remembered they weren't hitched. Oops. Salad dressing trumps adopted non-American orphans, I guess. Moving on. Jolie, Hathaway and Leo are all supporting movies that didn't get much love in any other major category, and buzz-wise have fallen behind the umpteenth nomination of Streep (though she hasn't won in over 25 years) and Kate Winslet's 6th nomination meaning it's time for the Academy to give the career nod thing. Streep has fans who loved Mamma Mia as well, and Winslet got two Golden Globes for two roles, yet not nominated for Revolutionary Road. Catholic turmoil vs. ex-Nazi turmoil. Finally, just going with my preference.
Preference and Bet: Kate Winslet, The Reader
3) Best Supporting Actor - Josh Brolin, Robert Downey, Phillip Seymour Hoffman, Heath Ledger, Michael Shannon
Admit it, you had to look and say "you mean there are four other people nominated in this category?" Shame for Hoffman and Brolin, but the former has an Oscar, and the latter has been seriously building momentum the last couple of years for another run later. Michael Shannon's nomination was probably the biggest acting surprise, unless you count the fact that there's an acting nomination coming from Tropic Thunder (what kind of odds could you have gotten on that a year ago), Good on ya, Robert Downey, Jr. More comedies should get nominated, but that's another soapbox. For what it's worth, I saw the winning role, found it very powerful, and don't really wanna give away a gimme.
Preference and Bet: Heath Ledger, The Dark Knight
4) Best supporting actress - Amy Adams, Penelope Cruz, Viola Davis, Taraji P. Henson, Marisa Tomei
Okay, I expected Kate Winslet to get her Oscar here before the nominations were announced, so here goes nothing. Let's say that Adams and Davis will split votes for their movie (I would have picked Davis outright if this were not the case), Henson's work in this most-nominated movie has the best shot for an acting win, but I don't see it. I am totally in favor of hot older actresses playing strippers (Tomei is much more eager to take off her clothes in recent years. Seen Before The Devil Knows Your Dead? Everybody say "YES!"), but I don't think she's ever gotten the momentum for this to get there. So, I'll play the thing about Woody Allen's actresses doing well on Oscar night.
Preference: Viola Davis, Doubt
Bet: Penelope Cruz, Vicky Christina Barcelona
5) Best director - Danny Boyle, Steven Daldry, David Fincher, Ron Howard, Gus Van Sant
Hmm, I felt all the candidates for the movies I have seen did fine jobs. In previous blog posts I have spoke glowingly about Danny and Opie (just sounds like it should be its own movie or something), and wouldn't fault any of these five. Lemme pull one out here...
Preference: Ron Howard, Frost/Nixon
Bet: David Fincher, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
6) Best animated film - Bolt, Kung Fu Panda, Wall-E
Okay, I'm taking an almost certain copout freebie here, but I have two things I want to say. One, Wall-E is one of the movies I have seen, so I should be allowed to pick it if I liked it. Two, I liked it, a lot, and wouldn't have even complained if it had snuck on to the nominees for Best Picture. So there.
Preference and Bet: Wall-E
7) Best picture - The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Frost/Nixon, Milk, The Reader, Slumdog Millionaire
My whole discussion should be on whether anyone can slow the momentum of Slumdog Millionaire, which has been quite the critical darling. The Indian fairy tale doesn't have major acting awards to shoulder some of the heavy lifting, and with the exception of Danny Boyle's Director nod, doesn't have any other real place to show love for the film. So, while the serious political messages of Milk make it best placed for the upset, I will say not this year.
Preference and Bet: Slumdog Millionaire
and several other "less major awards" I wanna see how I'd do, with preference/bets going towards movies I saw, wanted to see, or wanna go out on a limb on.
1) Original Screenplay - Milk
2) Adapted Screenplay - John Patrick Shanley, Doubt
3) Foreign-Language Film - The Class
4) Costume Design - The Duchess
5) Cinematography - Slumdog Millionaire
6) Visual Effects - The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
7) Sound Editing/Sound Mixing: could I tell the difference? Probably not - The Dark Knight
So have fun, and let's see if I can match my Grammy post....
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Grammy thoughts
It occurs to me, a bit late, that the Grammys are tonight. I do have thoughts and preferences which, while not intensely drawn out, I would like to share with you. I am not going to be comprehensive, but hit the majors and a few of the other ones I might care about, anyway....
1) Best New Artist: Adele, Duffy, Jonas Brothers, Lady Antebellum, Jazmine Sullivan -
Okay, if the Jonas Brothers win, I'm going to suggest the NARAS is locked in a room playing a loop of New Kids On The Block, Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, Christina Aguilera, Tiffany, and Debbie Gibson. Just a thought. My preference is for Duffy, and my bet is on Adele.
2) Record Of The Year: Viva La Vida, Chasing Pavements, Bleeding Love, Paper Planes, Please Read The Letter - Hmm, I'm surprised to see the M.I.A. and Krauss/Plant entries here, so I will assume that for them, the nomination is enough. Let's think that the Adele and Leona Lewis votes split, and allow for my favorite amongst these to win. My preference is for Viva La Vida, and my bet is also on Coldplay's title track.
3) Album Of The Year: Raising Sand, Viva La Vida Or Death And All His Friends, Tha Carter III, Year Of The Gentleman, In Rainbows - Okay, Coldplay got nominated for everything that could, just about, but I don't see them winning everything. Li'l Wayne was the best-selling album of the year, and Radiohead is a critical favorite. I have no comment about Ne-Yo, as I know nothing except that modern R&B and Hip-Hop are not genres that tend to win these sort of awards. This is the category where the out of nowhere, "who's heard this?" kind of thing happens most often, so... My preference is for Coldplay, and my bet is for Alison Krauss & Robert Plant.
4) Song Of The Year: American Boy, Chasing Pavements, I'm Yours, Love Song, Viva La Vida - Well, Jason Mraz is a Virginia boy, and you would think Adele might win one of these big ones. Kanye West is an award-winning dude, but... My preference is for Sara Bareilles, and my bet is for Coldplay.
5) Pop Vocal Album: Detours, Rockferry, Long Road Out Of Eden, Spirit, Covers - Let's dismiss James Taylor's covers album first, and then any of the others could win. So, when in doubt, let's go with stuff I like. My preference is for Duffy, but either Sheryl Crow or Eagles would make the old fogies happy.
6) Rock Album: Viva La Vida Or Death And All His Friends, Consolers Of The Lonely, Rock N Roll Night, Only By The Night, Death Magnetic - Did Metallica put out an album? Whoops. Kings Of Leon? Nope. Kid Rock should be shot for stealing. So, while I didn't like this Raconteurs album as much as their first, I don't want Coldplay to win everything. My preference is for The Raconteurs, and my bet is for Coldplay.
7) Alternative Music Album: In Rainbows, Modern Guilt, Narrow Stairs, The Odd Couple, Evil Urges - Gnarls Barkley, Radiohead, and Beck are all favorites with this group of voters, so I can't see My Morning Jacket and Death Cab For Cutie making off with this. Let's assume some of the voters paid whatever they wanted for Radiohead's album. My preference is for Radiohead, and that's where my vote is.
Enjoy not watching the show and thus not being able to see how I did. Auf Wiedersehen!!
1) Best New Artist: Adele, Duffy, Jonas Brothers, Lady Antebellum, Jazmine Sullivan -
Okay, if the Jonas Brothers win, I'm going to suggest the NARAS is locked in a room playing a loop of New Kids On The Block, Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, Christina Aguilera, Tiffany, and Debbie Gibson. Just a thought. My preference is for Duffy, and my bet is on Adele.
2) Record Of The Year: Viva La Vida, Chasing Pavements, Bleeding Love, Paper Planes, Please Read The Letter - Hmm, I'm surprised to see the M.I.A. and Krauss/Plant entries here, so I will assume that for them, the nomination is enough. Let's think that the Adele and Leona Lewis votes split, and allow for my favorite amongst these to win. My preference is for Viva La Vida, and my bet is also on Coldplay's title track.
3) Album Of The Year: Raising Sand, Viva La Vida Or Death And All His Friends, Tha Carter III, Year Of The Gentleman, In Rainbows - Okay, Coldplay got nominated for everything that could, just about, but I don't see them winning everything. Li'l Wayne was the best-selling album of the year, and Radiohead is a critical favorite. I have no comment about Ne-Yo, as I know nothing except that modern R&B and Hip-Hop are not genres that tend to win these sort of awards. This is the category where the out of nowhere, "who's heard this?" kind of thing happens most often, so... My preference is for Coldplay, and my bet is for Alison Krauss & Robert Plant.
4) Song Of The Year: American Boy, Chasing Pavements, I'm Yours, Love Song, Viva La Vida - Well, Jason Mraz is a Virginia boy, and you would think Adele might win one of these big ones. Kanye West is an award-winning dude, but... My preference is for Sara Bareilles, and my bet is for Coldplay.
5) Pop Vocal Album: Detours, Rockferry, Long Road Out Of Eden, Spirit, Covers - Let's dismiss James Taylor's covers album first, and then any of the others could win. So, when in doubt, let's go with stuff I like. My preference is for Duffy, but either Sheryl Crow or Eagles would make the old fogies happy.
6) Rock Album: Viva La Vida Or Death And All His Friends, Consolers Of The Lonely, Rock N Roll Night, Only By The Night, Death Magnetic - Did Metallica put out an album? Whoops. Kings Of Leon? Nope. Kid Rock should be shot for stealing. So, while I didn't like this Raconteurs album as much as their first, I don't want Coldplay to win everything. My preference is for The Raconteurs, and my bet is for Coldplay.
7) Alternative Music Album: In Rainbows, Modern Guilt, Narrow Stairs, The Odd Couple, Evil Urges - Gnarls Barkley, Radiohead, and Beck are all favorites with this group of voters, so I can't see My Morning Jacket and Death Cab For Cutie making off with this. Let's assume some of the voters paid whatever they wanted for Radiohead's album. My preference is for Radiohead, and that's where my vote is.
Enjoy not watching the show and thus not being able to see how I did. Auf Wiedersehen!!
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